Sunday 19 October 2014

Bras, Bras, Bras.


Hi Everyone. Ok so this post is one for all women and you guessed it, it's all about bras. As someone who has been a bra fitter for five years, I feel I know something about the subject. I can not emphasis enough how important it is to have a bra fitting at least once a year. You might always be the same size, you might have completely changed. But here are some key things to look out for which means it's time for a fitting.

1. Your bra strap is riding up at the back.   The back of your bra should always be in a straight line. If you feel you need to pull the bra down, it can either mean the bra is too old, or it's too big in the back (the 32,34,36 part).

2. The under wire is digging in. This is one of the most important reasons to get a fitting. If a wire digs into the breast tissue, this can lead to a benign lump, as well as causing discomfort.

3. If you lift your arms, the bra comes away from you. Well if this happens, it can be VERY embarrassing. This can mean two things, firstly you need a bigger cup size (A, B, C, D etc) and possibly a small back size. (complicated isn't it!)

4. Your bra feels tight. Ok this is the problem I hear over and over again. This does not necessarily mean you need a bigger back size, but can just mean you need a bigger cup size.

Any of these ring a bell? Ok so if you do feel that you need to now get a fitting, make sure that your fitter doesn't just use a tape measure. Someone once told me that a tape measure can not measure volume. They can be handy, but a good fitter shouldn't need to use one.

When you are trying bras on, do the hooks on the loosest setting so as the bra gets older you can tighten them (unless you are pregnant when it should be the other way round, so as the pregnancy goes on, you can loosen the bra for comfort).

Also make sure the fitter adjusts the straps. The straps should only give 15-20% of the support but it can make the final tweak to the bra, and the straps shouldn't digging into the shoulder but not falling down either.

Make sure you can put the bra on yourself! Sounds simple but sometimes people actually forget to try and put the bra on themselves. And finally, make sure you feel comfy in it.

And when you have your new bras, please please please hand wash them. Put them in a sink to soak with some liquid (do not use fabric conditioner, it will destroy the elastic), leave to soak and hang somewhere cool to dry.

I hope this helps a few of you. It can make such a difference to your posture and even your dress size when you are wearing the correct fitting bra, and is not something to worry about. xx



Saturday 11 October 2014

Absent for a while... because of Wedding!


So it's been a bit quiet on the blog front, due to the fact we finally tired the knot! The last few weeks leading up to the wedding were bit manic, meetings, dropping bits to the florist and the venues, getting final numbers together, and all with a teething baby.

It was a magical time and I have never felt so many emotions in one day; excitement, anxiety, happiness, relief and exhaustion to name but a few, and the thing I found most strange was when we were signing all the legal bits, I looked up and all the people were there for us. I'm not going to go into all the details and show loads of photos, however I will give a bit of advice to anyone planning their big day, make time for the two of you. After the ceremony, we spent an hour just the two of us and the photographer whist we had our couple photos taken together, and it was lovely to just relax and take in the day so far before heading to the reception.

I know our photographer will be writing a blog on our wedding which will be live next month on
 Karen Fuller's website. She is fantastic with a camera and will make you feel like model and I would recommend to anyone getting married in the Norfolk area.


Cutting the cake, photo taken by member of family


So, do I feel different? No. Our relationship was strong before and it is now, but it is lovely to be able to call Martyn my husband and I love it when he calls me his wife, and I certainly will never forget the fact all those people were there for us.